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Ready to shake up your evening routine? Maybe you’re tired of the same old takeout on the couch and are craving a bit more magic in your week with a date night. Whether you’re lucky enough to live near the coast, planning a woodland escape, or just hitting the local park, a picnic is the ultimate way to break the monotony.

Let’s be real; it’s perfect for a first date, too—chill enough to keep things light yet romantic enough to make it special. Plus, no need to shout over a noisy bar to get to know each other. Instead, you can relax, talk, and see how well you actually connect.

Classic wicker picnic basket packed with essentials – a must-have among things to bring on a picnic date for a romantic outing.

To ensure your picnic date is absolutely perfect, I’ve compiled the ultimate packing list. From the romantic essentials to the fun extras and those practical items that save the day, here’s your guide to the perfect picnic.

P.S. Before you go, make sure you have the perfect spot picked out. There’s nothing worse than showing up and the spot not matching the vibe. Whether in a botanical garden, public park, or beach, it’s always a good idea to scope it out first if you can.

Creating the right ambiance is key. You want this to feel like a scene straight out of a rom-com, not a rushed lunch break.

1. Picnic Blanket

The foundation of your setup. Choose a large, comfortable, and aesthetically pleasing blanket. Think plush textures, floral prints, or quilted. Layer a waterproof picnic blanket with something cozy on top.

2. Pillows/Cushions

Nothing says cozy like a few well-placed pillows. Perfect for lounging, napping, or stealing cheeky kisses. Go for plush, decorative cushions that complement your blanket and add a touch of luxury. (I also love bringing a cozy blanket in case it gets chilly! We love a good sunset picnic.)

3. Fairy Lights or Lanterns

Fairy lights or lanterns can transform your picnic into a magical haven, especially as the sun sets. Drape them around your setup or place them in mason jars for an instant whimsical effect. Think of it as your own little “La La Land” moment.

4. Fresh Flowers

A small bouquet of fresh flowers can add that touch of romance and final touches. Choose seasonal blooms or your partner’s favorites. Lay them casually on the blanket or place them in a simple vase. Bonus points if you can channel your inner florist and make a mini arrangement on the spot.

5. Candles

Candles (windproof or LED) are your secret weapon for setting the mood. Place them strategically around your picnic area to create a warm, inviting glow. LED candles work great if you’re worried about the wind—because who needs a picnic fire hazard?

6. Classic Picnic Basket

Nothing says “picnic” quite like a classic wicker basket. It’s not just about aesthetics—these baskets are incredibly practical, with compartments for cutlery, plates, and glasses. Plus, they have a timeless charm that adds to the romantic vibe.

Delicious spread of gourmet sandwiches, pizza, fresh fruit, and charcuterie board – things to bring on a picnic date for the perfect meal.

Alright, let’s talk about the real MVPs of any picnic—the food and drinks. Because, let’s be honest, the way to anyone’s heart is through their stomach. Here’s what to pack to keep the love (and snacks) flowing:

1. Gourmet Sandwiches/Wraps

Forget your basic PB&J. We’re talking grilled chicken, roasted veggies, or light finger foods. Wrap them in parchment paper for that chic, Instagrammable touch. Think more “Barefoot Contessa” than “cafeteria lunch.”

2. Cheese and Charcuterie Board

A well-curated cheese and charcuterie board is always a win. Pack an assortment of cheeses (brie, cheddar, gouda), cured meats (salami, prosciutto), and extras like olives, nuts, and dried fruits. Arrange them on a wooden board (a cutting board works, too!) or in a dedicated cheese box for easy transport.

3. Fresh Fruit

Fresh fruit salad is a refreshing and healthy addition. Go for easy-to-eat options like strawberries, grapes, and blueberries. Pre-cut larger fruits like watermelon or pineapple to keep things simple.

4. Pastries/Desserts

No picnic is complete without a little sweet treat. Pack a selection of pastries or desserts like macarons, cookies, or brownies. These treats are easy to pack and add a delightful end to your meal. Because who doesn’t want a little Parisian flair on their picnic?

5. Wine/Champagne

Elevate your picnic with a bottle of red wine or champagne. Don’t forget the bottle opener! Also, make sure to bring plastic or reusable wine glasses to prevent accidents.

6. Non-Alcoholic Drinks

Hydration is key, especially on a warm day. Pack refreshing non-alcoholic drinks like sparkling water, fruit juice, lemonade, or iced tea. And don’t forget your water bottles! Consider a thermos to keep your drinks cool.

Because a picnic isn’t just about the food—it’s about the moments you share. Here’s how to keep the fun and connection flowing:

1. Bluetooth Speaker

Background music sets the perfect mood. Bring a portable speaker and curate a playlist of your favorite tunes. I always have a few Spotify playlists ready so that I’m prepared for whatever mood strikes me. (This one is a favorite of mine!)

2. Board Games/Card Games

Lightweight and portable games can add a lot of fun to your picnic. Choose a classic like UNO, Scrabble, or a simple deck of cards. These games are easy to play outdoors and perfect for some lighthearted competition. Channel your inner “Friends” episode with some friendly rivalry.

3. Books/Poetry

Bring a book of poetry or short stories to spark meaningful conversations and a great opportunity to connect. Take turns reading aloud or discussing your favorite passages. It’s a thoughtful way to connect on a deeper level. Think of it as your “Dead Poets Society” moment.

4. Journal and Pens

A journal can be a lovely addition to your picnic. Write love notes to each other, reflect on your relationship, or jot down your thoughts. It’s a personal touch that makes your time together even more special.

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To ensure your picnic runs smoothly and is free from any hiccups, pack these practical essentials:

1. Bug Spray

Keep the bugs at bay with an effective bug repellant. If you’re concerned about chemicals, opt for natural options like citronella candles or essential oil sprays. Nobody wants their romantic moment ruined by a swarm of mosquitoes.

2. Sunscreen

Protect your skin from harmful UV rays, especially if your picnic is during the day. Bring a broad-spectrum sunscreen with at least SPF 30 and reapply as needed.

3. Hand Sanitizer/Wet Wipes

Keeping your hands clean before eating is essential. Pack hand sanitizer and wet wipes to ensure cleanliness without needing a water source.

4. Trash Bags

Pack trash bags and leave no trace behind. Need I say more?

5. Cutlery and Napkins

Bring reusable or disposable cutlery and napkins, depending on your food choices. Consider packing eco-friendly options to reduce waste.

6. Ice Packs/Cooler Bag

Pack ice packs in a cooler bag to keep your food and drinks fresh and cool. This will ensure your perishables stay at the right temperature.

7. First Aid Kit

Accidents happen, so it’s wise to bring a basic first aid kit. Include items like band-aids, antiseptic wipes, and pain relievers to handle minor injuries.

8. Umbrella or Portable Tent

Even if you check the weather forecast, be prepared for unexpected weather changes. A portable umbrella or pop-up tent can provide shade from the sun on a hot day or shelter from rain, ensuring your picnic continues uninterrupted. And in case it gets bad, always have a plan B!

Planning for contingencies ensures you’re prepared for anything:

1. Portable Phone Charger

Keep your devices powered with a portable phone charger. This is especially important if you’re using your phone for music, photos, or navigation.

2. Extra Layer of Clothing

Weather can be unpredictable, so bring an extra layer of clothing like a light sweater or jacket. This will keep you comfortable if the temperature drops.

3. Weather-Appropriate Gear

Depending on the forecast, pack items like hats, sunglasses, or an extra blanket for warmth. Being prepared will make your picnic more enjoyable.

Adding personal touches can make your picnic even more special:

1. Personalized Notes or Letters

Exchange handwritten notes or letters during your picnic. It’s a heartfelt gesture that can make the moment even more memorable.

2. Camera

Capture the memories with a camera. (Major bonus points!) Whether you prefer a digital camera or a Polaroid, taking photos will allow you to look back and remember.

3. Reusable Containers

Don’t forget to put any extra food in reusable containers to cut down on waste and have a tasty meal later.

Since moving to Wilmington, we love breaking up the week with a picnic. It’s a great way to sneak in some quality time together when life gets busy. It’s so easy to fall into a rut and forget to enjoy the little things. Changing up the pace with a picnic date is a fantastic way to intentionally connect and have some fun.

There you have it—things to bring on a picnic date and a foolproof plan to make it unforgettable. Whether you’re spreading out your blanket in a park, garden, or sandy shore, these tips will help you create a magical moment.

Now, it’s your turn. Pack your basket, grab your blanket, and get out there.

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